LIST 12 - MARRIAGES

 
 
These  two sub-lists record the 'marriages' of 915 of  the  First Generation, 
separated into females and males. For the purposes of this  list 'marriage' 
refers to both those with the  blessing  of the Church and those in anticipation 
of it.
 
The information presented for each entry includes: 
 
               family name of bride/groom
               Christian name of bride/groom               
               year of birth
               parents' names 
               parents' civil status at the time of bride/groom's birth
               parents' marital status at the time of bride/groom's birth
               date of marriage
               place of marriage 
               age at marriage
               name of spouse
               civil status of the spouse at the time of marriage
               age of spouse
               age  difference between bride and groom
               marriage number
               number of children resulting from the union. 
 
The list is in alphabetical order, firstly on surname secondly on Christian name 
then chronologically on date of marriage if  there was more than one.
 
Of  those whose marriage is recorded, as would be  expected  from the  Church 
Chronology discussed in the Introduction,  most  took place at the earliest of 
the churches established in the  colony; St Phillips Sydney , St Johns Parramatta, 
St Matthews Windsor and St Davids Hobart in Van Diemens Land.
 
The  'Age at Marriage' figure was calculated by  subtracting  the date  of  birth 
from the date of marriage. In those  cases  where there  was  a  defacto  marriage 
the  figure  was  calculated  by subtracting  the  date of birth of the parent 
from  the  date  of birth of the first child of the union minus one.
 
The   'Age  Difference  between  Bride  and  Groom'  figure   was calculated 
by subtracting the date of birth of the bride from the date  of  birth of the 
groom. In most cases this  is  a  positive number  and  a  surprisingly  large  
positive  number  by  modern standards. To be able to derive this figure, the 
year of birth of both bride and groom needed to be known.
 
Only  'marriages' after the first are numbered. In modern  times, divorce  is  
the  scourge that  results  in  multiple  marriages, whereas  for  the First 
Generation it was the death of  a  spouse that  lead to multiple marriages.
 
The  information about the 'Number of Children' from  each  union comes  
principally from 'The Pioneer Register' project  which  in turn derives from 
the descendants of these unions who would  have obtained the information from 
death certificates. Where there was more than one marriage, the number of 
children has been  totalled for  all marriages. If anything the figures presented 
here  would have  to  be  the absolute minimum of  children  for  each  union 
because  no  doubt  many births have  been  overlooked  or  never recorded. 
Undoubtedly those unions with only one or two  children may  not  have  left 
descendants and their issue  may  have  been missed  altogether. On the other 
hand those unions with the  most children  would  have of necessity had the most  
descendants  and information on them is more likely to have survived. 
 
 
FEMALES
 
This   sub-list  records  the  marriage  details  of  553   First Generation  
women.  Multiple marriages were entered into  by  171 women,  thus  the  list 
presents in total  724  unions  of  First Generation women. 
 
 
Date of Marriage
The  earliest of the First Generation to marry was Ann  Harmswoth on  19th January 
1800, followed by Ann Eades, Ann  Griffin,  Jane Jones and Eleanor Flemming in 
the same year. All these girls were childhood arrivals and as a consequence were 
slightly older  than their  colonial born sisters. The first of the colonial  
born  to marry was Laetitia Sever on the 8th November 1804.
 
Sophia Carmen married for the first time in 1859 and Mary Dowling in 1849 but 
both these women had been living with their  partners for  many years before 
marriage. Elizabeth Marsden  was  probably the truly last of her generation to 
form a union when she married the Reverend Henry Bobart in 1837.
 
In  about a fifth of the unions (110) no marriage date  has  been recorded,  either  
because  no marriage ever took  place  or  the record  has been lost or not found 
at this time. Three  marriages are reputed to have taken place in England for 
which no date  has been  found and Hannah Edge and Mary Goodwin are reputed to  
have been married on Norfolk Island but again the record has not  been located.
 
 
Place of Marriage
The  table below lists the number of first marriages  which  took place at each 
of the early churches.
 
            Table 12.1. - Church of First Marriage
 
          Church                             Number
          -----------------------------------------
          St Phillips Sydney                    140
          St Johns Parramatta                   105
          St Matthews Windsor                    76
          Christ Church Castlereagh              11
          St Peters Richmond                      7
          St Lukes Liverpool                      4
          St James Sydney                         3
          St Johns Wilberforce                    2
          St Peters Campbelltown                  2         
          All Saints Sutton Forest                1
          St Thomas Port Macquarie                1
          Scots Kirk Sydney                       4
          St Marys Sydney (RC)                    2
 
          Norfolk Island                          6
 
          St Davids Hobart VDL                   93
          St Johns Launceston VDL                12
          St Matthews New Norfolk                 3
 
All  of these churches apart from Scots Kirk Sydney and St  Marys Sydney  are  
Anglican  churches.  The  churches  of  second   and subsequent marriages, coming 
later in the history of the  colony, are  much more varied and more widely spread 
about the  expanding colony.
 
In four cases whilst the year of marriage is known the church  is not:
 
               Elizabeth Cavanagh       1812
               Mary Cross               1809
               Mary Egan                1817
               Martha Farrell           1817
 
Seven  women  are  known to have married  overseas,  and  in  all probability  
there  were  a lot  more.  Elizabeth  Peck  somewhat romantically pursued her 
Army Captain lover when his regiment was recalled from the colony and married 
him in India:
 
               England   :    Ann Maria Ball
                              Elizabeth Dell
                              Emily Kemp
                              Anna Maria King
                              Elizabeth King
               Scotland:      Elizabeth McKellar
               India:         Elizabeth Peck
          
Mary  Macarthur married at 'Elizabeth Farm' Parramatta.  Susannah Williams  
married at an unspecified church in Sydney  and  Sophia Carmen  at  an unspecified 
church in Parramatta.  Mary  Kimberley married in an unspecified church at 
Cottage Green Hobart. 
 
 
Age at Marriage
The  following  table  lists the age of marriage  for  the  First Generation  
women.  These  figures pertain only  to  their  first marriage, ages of subsequent 
marriages would of course be greater.
 
             Table 12.2. - Age at First Marriage
 
          Age  Number    Age  Number    Age  Number    
          -----------    -----------    -----------    
          11        1    21       39    31        2    
          12        2    22       11    32        1    
          13        9    23       19    33        1    
          14       28    24       10    34        1    
          15       44    25        9    35        3    
          16       83    26       11    36        0    
          17       65    27        6    37        2    
          18       61    28        7    38        3    
          19       46    29        4    39        0    
          20       39    30        3    40        1    
 
As  can be seen from the above table, the First Generation  girls were  married 
young, sixteen being the most common age  to  marry and  by  twenty-one,  of  
the girls who  would  marry,  the  vast majority  were married. It has to be 
remembered that to become  a 'wife  &  mother' was the expected role in society 
for  women  at this time and no doubt many were anxious to get on with it!
 
Unfortunately  in  77  cases  the  age  of  marriage  cannot   be determined,  
either  because the year of birth of  the  bride  is unknown (10) or because 
the marriage date is unknown (67).
 
It is said that "the past is a different country, they do  things differently 
there" and no truer example can be found than to look at society's attitude to 
matters sexual as they appertain to when a young woman is considered eligible 
for 'marriage', that age was considerably  younger in the late eighteenth century 
than  it  is today. The particular circumstances of the infant colony, in that 
there  was  a vast over preponderance of men, needs to  be  taken into 
consideration when considering these matters as well.  Young girls were 
obviously eagerly sought as partners at ages that even by  the  standards  of 
libertine  Georgian  England     would  be considered as young. Then again, it 
must be remembered New  South Wales  was a 'colony of criminals' so bad behaviour 
of all  types was only to be expected.
 
Sarah  Wheeler is recorded as having a child at the age of  eight years,  but  
this  is obviously an error; Ann  Haywood  and  Jane Kennedy  are likewise recorded 
as having children at the ages  of  11  and 13 respectively, but again these 
would have to be  errors in the recording of dates. 
 
Elizabeth Baker and Elizabeth Munday both had children at the age of  14 years, 
however their ages are not certain and  whilst  the mothers  have  baptisms 
recorded in 1789 and  1788  respectively, their  actual dates of birth were not 
recorded and it is only  an assumption that they were baptized the same year 
as their births.
 
Susannah  Martin,  Elizabeth  Nichols, Mary  Rowe  and  Elizabeth Waterson  all 
had children at the age of 15 years, only  Susannah Martin  has  an accurately 
recorded birth date, the  others  once again  had  dates of birth that are not 
well  documented.  What's more,  Elizabeth  Nichols  and Elizabeth Waterson  were  
born  on Norfolk  Island where there is a definite uncertainty  about  the accuracy 
of information. 
 
Mary Dowling married for the first time at the age of 61 but  she had  been  living 
with Thomas King for many  years  before  that. Harriet Sutton married John Kerr 
for the first time at the age of 45.  Elizabeth Davis married for the second 
time to Andrew  Mahon at  the  age  of 76 although they too had  been  living  
together before that.
 
 
Civil Status of the Groom at the Time of Marriage
Whom  the First Generation women married proved to be one of  the most interesting 
aspects of this analysis. This information  once again comes principally from 
the Pioneer Register project. 
 
The  table  below  lists  the civil status  of  grooms  at  first marriage and 
the numbers and percentages of each category. Almost one  half  (46%) married 
men of convict background, 28%  of  whom were  still serving their terms, whereas 
only 18%  married  their colonial  born counterparts. Three marriages took place  
overseas to men who never emigrated. Regrettably the status of 52 (9%)  of the 
grooms is unknown at this time.
 
       Table 12.3. - Civil Status of Groom at First Marriage
 
          Civil Status              Number    Percentage
          ----------------------------------------------
          BC - colonial born            99            18
          CF - came free               157            28
          GS - convict                 156            28
          TL - ticket of leave           3             1
          CP - conditional pardon        7             1
          AP - absolute pardon          11             2
          FS - free by servitude        79            14
          NE - overseas                  3             1
          -- - unknown                  52             9
 
As  seen in the table above the great surprise and  indeed  great mystery  is  
why the colonial born women  virtually  ignored  the colonial born men. It must 
have been very galling to the colonial lads  that  the  lasses  even  preferred  
serving  convicts  over themselves.
 
Now this may be just a manifestation of the tendency for women to marry  men  
older  than  themselves so, of  necessity  the  First Generation  of  colonial 
born women would not have  any  colonial born  men older than themselves to marry 
but even so the  reasons for  so  few  marriages  to  colonial  born  men  would  
make   a fascinating  study  in  itself. Why  was  British  "sterling"  so preferred  
over  local  "currency" ?  What  was/is   wrong   with Australian men ?
 
The  colonial born lads may well have held the moral high  ground but  then  as 
now Sydney is a town where "money  talks"  and  the dollar  (holey in this case) 
apparently makes up for a  multitude of "crims" so the colonial born lasses went 
for the lucre. What's changed one might well ask !
 
On the other hand, it could be that whilst the colonial born men, whatever  other  
fine qualities they may have  possessed  fitting them  to be excellent pioneers 
and settlers of an  untamed  land, due  to the lack of educational opportunities 
in the early  years of  the colony when they were growing up, were perhaps  
perceived to be possibly nothing more than ignorant buffoons especially  in 
comparison to their more 'sophisticated' old world rivals for the hearts of the 
local girls.
 
 
Age of Groom
The great ages of some of the grooms would come as a surprise  to modern  minds. 
Tables will be presented when discussing the  male colonial born grooms to show 
their general spread of the ages. Of interest  at  this time is that Elizabeth 
Robley married  the  62 year  old  Michael  Massey Robinson when she  was  only  
14,  Ann Sherberd married the 63 year old Reverend William Henry when  she was  
only  16,  and  Laetitia Sever, who was  the  first  of  the colonial  born to 
marry, married the 57 year old  Roger  Twyfield when she was just 16.
 
 
Age Difference between Bride and Groom
To  be able to derive this figure, the year of birth of both  the bride  and 
groom needed to be known. Unfortunately in  139  cases (30%),  one or the other 
or both of these dates is  unknown.  The table  below  lists  the  age  difference  
distributions  of  the remaining 70% of 'marriages'.
 
          Table 12.4. - Age Difference at First Marriage
 
 Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    
 -----------    -----------    -----------    -----------    -----------    
-10        1     0        5    10       11    20       11    30        0    
 -9        0     1       21    11       12    21       11    31        0    
 -8        0     2       24    12       10    22        7    32        0    
 -7        2     3       21    13       15    23        6    33        1    
 -6        1     4       13    14       17    24        7    34        2    
 -5        4     5       27    15        9    25       10    35        0    
 -4        3     6       24    16       15    26        7    36        1    
 -3        3     7       24    17       10    27        4    37        0    
 -2        7     8       21    18        9    28        2    38        1    
 -1       10     9       11    19       12    29        4    39        1    
         ---            ---            ---            ---            ---   
          31            150            118             69              6
 
In modern times a figure of five years difference between spouses would  be 
considered 'acceptable', stretching at most to say  ten years.   Things  were  
very  different  however  for  our   First Generation women; Charlotte Sutton 
was 40 years younger than  her husband,  Laetitia  Sever 41 years, Elizabeth 
Ruse 42  years  and Elizabeth  Robley  was  48  years  younger  than  Michael  
Massey Robinson.
 
Looked  at in terms of decades; 47% married a man one  decade  or less  older,  
37% married a man two decades or  less  older,  22% marred a man three decades 
or less older and 2% marred a man four decades  or  less older, a situation very 
unusual in  any  modern Western culture.
 
But not all brides were younger than their grooms. There were  31 cases (10%) 
in which the bride was older, Elizabeth Grace was  14 years older than her 
colonial born groom.
 
Interestingly,  for  those  women  with  second  and   subsequent marriages,  
the age difference profile changes markedly. Now  39% married men who were 
younger than themselves and only one  woman, Mary Ann Martin,  married a man 
more than two decades older  then herself.   Perhaps  being  widowed  and  
inheriting  their   late husbands'  assets,  it  was now they who were in  a  
position  to attract  younger men, in many cases more than ten years  younger. 
Elizabeth  Robley, mentioned above as marrying a much older  man, when married 
a second time she married a man 4 years younger then herself.
 
 
Number of Marriages
One  quarter of the women were married two or more times.  Second 'marriages'  
were  entered  into  by  135  women,  25  had  three 'marriages', 6 had four 
'marriages' and Sarah Burgess had five. 
 
 
Number of Children
The  issue  from all these 'marriages' is known for  443  of  the First  Generation  
women.  For those women  with  more  than  one partner,  the  number  of  children 
has  been  totalled  for  all marriages.
 
The total number of children from these 'marriages' is 3,021  and average  of 
6.8 ! Remember too that these figures  represent  the absolute minimum. 
 
The  table below lists the number of issue of each union and  the number of women 
who had this issue. The striking thing about this list is just how many children 
the average First Generation woman bore, which in turn stands as a testament 
to the good health  and general robustness of these women as a generation. Nearly 
30% had ten or more children and less than 3% had no issue at all.  Again it  
should  be  emphasized that these figures would  have  to  be considered the 
absolute minimum number of children whom the First Generation women bore.
 
            Table 12.5. - Number of Children
 
          Issue     Number    Issue     Number
          ----------------    ----------------
          0             15     9            28
          1             36    10            35
          2             28    11            33      
          3             28    12            21
          4             38    13            12
          5             38    14            17 
          6             37    15             2
          7             35    16             3
          8             42    22             1
 
Note the infertility rate of 3.4%.
 
Ann Lucas is reputed to have had 22 children to Charles Williams, although  only  
14 have been documented. Ann  Collins  and  Sarah Goodwin  each had 15 children, 
Elizabeth Davis, Maria  Grono  and Maria Tucker each had 16 children and all 
these births have  been documented.
 
Again  it  is  a  testament to the robust  health  of  the  First Generation 
women that so many of them were still having  children well  into their late 
forties and even fifties.  Elizabeth  Davis had her last children at the age 
of 59.
 
 
It  should be pointed out that six First Generation women in  the 1814 Muster, 
three in the 1822 Muster and six in the 1828  Census were recorded as married 
but who could not be further  identified and whose marriages could not be located.
                                                                                      
1814 Muster: Charlotte         J Brown            -- ----    
             Elizabeth         James O'Hara       BC 1792    
             Mary              John Monday        BC 1790    
             Mary              Thomas Algate      -- ----    
             Sarah             James Brackenrigg  CF 1758    
             Sarah             Thomas Payten      FS 1769    
                                                                           
1822 Muster: Lucy        1797  Dennis Bryant      CP 1787 10 
             Mary        1798  - Percival         -- ---- 
             Mary        1800  - Martin           -- ---- 
                                                                           
1828 Census: Lucy        1797  Dennis Bryant      CP 1787 10 
             Margaret    1798  - Percival         -- ---- 
             Mary        1795  John Hopkins       TL 1794  1
             Mary        1796  James Butler       GS 1790  6
             Sarah       1799  William Watts      FS 1798 (1)
             Sarah       1800  William Lees       FS 1793  7
 
 
MALES
 
This   sub-list  records  the  marriage  details  of  362   First Generation 
men. Multiple marriages were entered into by  61  men, thus  the list presents 
in total 422 unions. Notice that this  is 298 less than for the women.
 
 
Date of Marriage
The earliest of the First Generation men to marry was Thomas Rose on  24th May 
1800, who of course as a childhood arrival.  It  was seven years before the next 
two childhood arrivals were to  marry in  1807;  William Ikin and William Ternan. 
John  Kelly  was  the first  of the colonial born to marry in 1808, although 
his  exact date of birth is unknown and he may have arrived as a very  young 
child.  Verified  colonial born men - Daniel  Standfield,  Joseph Barrisford 
& George Wood, also all married in 1808, interestingly all in Hobart Van Diemens 
Land, after their transfer from Norfolk Island.
 
James Bellamy was the last of his generation to marry in 1871 but he was marrying 
for the second time. Last to marry for the  first time was Edward Macarthur in 
1862.
 
In  44 cases the date of marriage is unknown, either  because  no marriage ever 
took place or the record has been lost or not found at  this time. Two marriages 
are reputed to have taken  place  in England  for  which  no date has been found 
and  another  two  in Calcutta in India.
 
 
Place of Marriage
The  table below lists the number of first marriages  which  took place at each 
of the early colonial churches.
 
            Table 12.6. - Church of First Marriage
 
          Church                             Number
          -----------------------------------------
          St Phillips Sydney                     66
          St Matthews Windsor                    60
          St Johns Parramatta                    43
          St Peters Richmond                     12
          Christ Church Castlereagh              11
          St James Sydney                         8
          St Lukes Liverpool                      7
          St Johns Wilberforce                    5
          St Peters Campbelltown                  2         
          St Peters East Maitland                 2
          Christ Church St Lawrence Sydney        1
          St Annes Kissing Point                  1
          St James Pitt Town                      1
          Scots Kirk Sydney                       4
          St Marys Sydney (RC)                    5
 
          St Davids Hobart VDL                   53
          St Johns Launceston VDL                11
          St Matthews New Norfolk                 2
          Independent Chapel Hobart VDL           1
 
All  of  these churches apart from Scots Kirk  Sydney,  St  Marys Sydney  and 
Independent Chapel Hobart are Anglican churches.  The churches of second and 
subsequent marriages, coming later in  the history  of  the  colony, are much 
more varied  and  more  widely spread about the expanding colony.
 
There  were  nine marriages in New South Wales where a  place  is recorded  but  
not  a church and five  similar  entries  for  Van Diemens Land:
 
               Samuel Arndell          MacDonald River            
               John Baxter             Sydney                     
               Isaac Cornwell          Landsdown Liverpool        
               William Craft           Richmond                   
               Thomas Crump            Sackville Reach            
               Paul Huon               Campbelltown               
               John Edge               Cooks River Sydney         
               Joseph Singleton        'Glendon' Hunter River     
               William Whittle         Lake Larrs Bathurst        
                                                                 
               Richard Jordan          Evandale VDL               
               James Hunt Lucas        Heads of Macquarie Harbour 
               John Paul               Hobart VDL                 
               William Peck            Longford VDL               
               William Stanfield       Hobart VDL                 
          
In four cases whilst the year of marriage is known the church  is not:
               Edward Kenny             1820
               William Neale            1824
               James Trimby             1817
               John Tucker              1815
 
Interestingly  the descendants of William Neale and James  Trimby have given 
an exact date for their marriages but still the record cannot be found in any 
existing church registers.
 
Ten  men  are  known  to  have  married  overseas,  and  in   all probability 
there were a lot more:
 
               England   :    William Bowman
                              William Gilbourne
                              John Harris
                              Phillip King
                              Sydney King
                              Duncan McKellar
                              James Macarthur
               Scotland  :    Edward Macarthur
                              D'Archy Wentworth
               Ireland   :    Joseph Holt
          
 
Age at Marriage
The  following  table  lists the age of marriage  for  the  First Generation  
men.  These  figures  pertain  only  to  their  first marriage,  ages  of  subsequent  
marriages  would  of  course  be greater.
 
             Table 12.7. - Age at First Marriage
 
          Age  Number    Age  Number    Age  Number    
          -----------    -----------    -----------    
          16        2    28       18    39        5
          17        4    29       11    40        1
          18        8    30       12    41        1
          19       23    31       11    42        3
          20       24    32        7    43        1
          21       43    33        5    44        1
          22       45    34        4    49        1
          23       27    35        5    50        1
          24       21    36        1    51        1
          25       19    37        2    55        2
          26       17    52        3    73        1
          27       13    38        3    
                                        
Unfortunately  in  13  cases  the  age  at  marriage  cannot   be determined,  
either  because the year of birth of  the  groom is unknown (5) or because the 
marriage date is unknown (8).
 
John Cunningham was the youngest 'man' to marry at the age of 16, William  John,  
Daniel  Johns & George Wood all  married  at  17. Thomas  Turner  fathered  a 
child at the age of 16  as  did  John Munday at the age of 17. 
 
James  Bellamy married for the second time at the age of 73  (and went  on  to  
father two children !). Edward  Macarthur  was  the oldest  of the First Generation 
to marry for the first time  also at the age of 73. Isaac Shephard and William 
Whittle both married for  the  first time at 55 and James Rochester at 50 but  
he  had been  living with and having children with his wife since he  was 24 
- he finally did the right thing and made of 'honest woman' of the mother of 
his ten children.
 
Some interesting differences emerge between the men and women  in this table. 
Firstly for the First Generation men  the most common age to marry was twenty-one 
and an half, a full five years  later than  for  the  girls. Secondly the men 
kept  on  marrying  to  a greater age, the last women to marry for the first 
time did so at the  age of 40, whereas seven men married in their forties,  four 
in their fifties, and one at 73.
 
 
Civil Status of the Wife at the Time of Marriage
The great and indeed surprising difference between the women  and men  of the 
First Generation is in their attitude to convicts  as expressed  in  their marital 
preferences with the  former  warmly embracing and the latter positively 
abhorring the convicts.
 
As  can  be  seen in the table below only 8%  of  men  married  a serving or 
former convict woman, whilst the figure for the  women was 46% almost six times 
as large - why would this have been so ? 
 
What's  more  as time went by the men were even  less  likely  to marry  a  convict  
woman. Where the date of  marriage  is  known; twelve  took place between 1810 
- 1819, ten between 1820 -  1829, and  only two thereafter, William Peck being 
the last to marry  a convict woman in 1836.
 
Another  point of interest regarding these convict marriages,  of the  38 men 
who married women older than themselves, 12  were  to convict women.
 
The  table below lists the status of 'brides' at  first  marriage and  the  numbers  
and  percentages of  each  category.  The  men overwhelmingly  married  their 
own kind - 68%  marrying  colonial born girls. Six marriages took place overseas 
to women who  never emigrated.  Regrettably  the status of 22 (6%) of the  brides  
is unknown at this time.
 
       Table 12.8. - Civil Status of Wife at First Marriage
 
          Civil Status              Number    Percentage
          ----------------------------------------------
          BC - colonial born           249            68 
          CF - came free                56            16 
          GS - convict                  26             7 
          TL - ticket of leave           1             0 
          FS - free by servitude         3             1 
          NE - overseas                  6             2 
          -- - unknown                  22             6 
 
 
Age of Wife
The extremely young ages of the brides (at least as far as modern sensibilities 
are concerned) has already been discussed above  in the female section. 
 
Tables  have  already been presented when discussing  the  female colonial born 
brides to show their general spread of ages. It  is worth noting in particular 
that it is highly unlikely that  Sarah Wheeler conceived a child at the age of 
eleven, this is  probably a  clerical  error.  On the other had it is  possible  
that  Mary Cupitt and Rosetta  Pearson were only twelve when they married or 
that Elizabeth Barnes, Charlotte Bogg, Mary Sherberd &  Elizabeth White were 
only thirteen.
 
At  the other end of the scale, Jane Pope was reputedly  76  when she  married  
Michael Nowland. Elizabeth Dring was  55  when  she married  Samuel  Arndell 
and Elizabeth Nowland was  52  when  she married  James Roberts but they both 
had been living  with  their grooms  for  many  years and had  produced  twenty  
one  children between them !
 
 
Age Difference between Bride and Groom
To  be able to derive this figure, the year of birth of both  the bride  and  
groom needed to be known. Unfortunately in  44  cases (12%),  one or the other 
or both of these dates is  unknown.  The table  below  lists  the  age  difference  
distributions  of  the remaining 88% of first 'marriages'.
 
          Table 12.9. - Age Difference at First Marriage
 
 Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    Age Dif. No    
 -----------    -----------    -----------    -----------    -----------    
-10        1     0       10    10        6    20        1    30        0    
 -9        1     1       25    11       10    21        0    31        1    
 -8        1     2       27    12        5    22        0    32        0    
 -7        3     3       20    13        7    23        0    33        1    
 -6        0     4       31    14        2    24        2    34        0    
 -5        5     5       33    15        2    25        1    35        0    
 -4        5     6       21    16        7    26        0    36        0    
 -3        5     7       26    17        2    27        1    37        0    
 -2        9     8       19    18        2    28        0    38        0    
 -1        9     9       13    19        2    29        0    39        0    
         ---            ---            ---            ---            ---   
          39            225             45              5              2
 
Not  on the table is Michael Nowland, aged 52,  who was 24  years younger  than 
his wife Jane Pope, aged 76 when they married.  The greatest positive age 
difference was between Richard Rees and Ann Bolton, he was 49 and she 16 - a 
difference of 33 years.
 
Looked at in terms of decades; 62% married a woman one decade  or less  younger, 
12%  married a woman two decades or less  younger, 1% marred a woman three decades 
or less younger and less than 1% married a woman four decades or less younger. Again the 
difference from the females  is  striking, the colonial born males  tended  to  
marry woman much closer to their own age, the females were three  times more  
likely to marry a man two decades older and 22  times  more likely to marry a 
man three decades older.
 
But  not all grooms were older than their brides. There  were  39 cases (11%) 
in which the bride was older.
 
Interestingly,   for  those  men  with  second   and   subsequent marriages,  
as  they became older they preferred  to  marry  even younger  women; 39% married 
a woman one decade or  less  younger, 36%   married  a woman two decades or less 
younger, 9%  marred  a woman  three decades or less younger and 7% married a 
woman  four decades or less younger. William Whittle was 42 years older  than 
his  second wife. On this occasion the women acted  similarly  to the  men  in  
choosing  younger  partners  for  their  subsequent marriages.
 
Only three of the post primary marriages were to older women  and in each case 
in was only by one year.
 
 
Number of Marriages
Second  'marriages' were entered into by 54 men and 7  had  three 'marriages'.  
Notice  that the males tended to be  somewhat  less 'promiscuous',  only 17% 
of men had multiple  marriages  compared with  a quarter in women, there were 
certainly no males to  match Sarah Burgess's five unions nor the 6 women who 
had four.
 
 
Number of Children
For those men with more than one partner, the number of  children has been 
totalled for all marriages.
 
The  total number of children from these 'marriages' is 2,338  an average  of 
7.4 ! Remember too that these figures  represent  the absolute minimum. 
 
The  table below lists the number of issue of each union and  the number  of 
men who had this issue. The striking thing about  this list  is just how many 
children the average First Generation  man fathered, which by modern standards 
seems incredible.
 
                 Table 12.10. - Number of Children
 
          Issue     Number    Issue     Number    Issue     Number
          ----------------    ----------------    ----------------
          0             15    10            25    22             2
          1             21    11            30
          2             22    12            19      
          3             23    13            12
          4             15    14             8
          5             16    16             4 
          6             22    17             1
          7             25    18             2
          8             34    19             1
          9             21    20             2
 
Note the infertility rate of 4.7%.
                              
William  Cook & Thomas Lock both fathered 22 children  each.  The brothers John 
& William Bailey fathered exactly the same  number, 20  children each. As noted 
above James Bellamy fathered a  child at the age of 76.
 
Regardless  of what other accomplishments this  First  Generation may have 
achieved, and there are many, populating this antipodean colony with loyal 
subjects of George III and his heirs would have to be rated amongst their most 
significant and long lasting.

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